Anger Management - Teenage Girls and Boys

Anger management for teenage girls and  boy's  may not be hard as you initially first thought. There are sound and proven ways in dealing with teenage anger management issues that are time tested to work.

Teenage anger management is really something a parent does not need to deal with when the are bringing up their family in a safe and secure environment. But, there are occasions when the teenager does have anger management issues that need to be dealt with. No one can deny that a teenager  who suffers with anger, is really not to blame for having feelings of this nature. Once that one point is identified, that is, the teenager is not at fault, then  the issue can be successfully dealt with. There will be nothing to gain by having the teenager feeling unsupported and responsible for their own feelings.

The  angry teenage needs to be supported and provided with a nurturing environment. Feeling safe at home for the teenager is one very important point in dealing with anger management issues. Once the teenager is secure in their environment then other techniques can be used such as communication and respect. Often anger management comes from the teenager feeling unloved or insecure and they are just reaching out in the only way they know how to, possibly in genuine anger and frustration or a small attempt to get the attention they so fondly deserve. So far we have discussed several issues that might bring on teenage anger. What has happened here is that some issues have been readily identified and none of those  issues cannot be satisfactory dealt with. Anger management is an individual issue and not a common issue that teenagers suddenly "catch". It is this way, identifying what the issues are, that can be addressed and a plan put in place.

To draw an analogy of this, if the anger results from an insecure home, then make it secure. If the anger issue results from neglect and feelings of being unloved, then change those feelings and make an effort. These are simple ideas to resolve such consequences of anger in the teenager. When talking with the teenager and looking at their environment, friends, family and schooling, it can readily be identified what it is that is feeding the anger in the teenager. Addressing this anger will allow the teenager to make choices in their life and realize that being angry is not going to be the best path to take. The teenager themselves will know what it is that makes them angry. One case was  were the daughter felt her Father did not respect her and she felt unwanted. Of course the teenage girl would lash out in anger to male authoritative figures such as school teachers and the Fathers of her friends.

When this issue was identified, the teenager could openly discuss her feelings and state why she felt such anger. Then the teenager was able to put into prospective that other males were not like her Father and should not be treated the same. More importantly the Father was made aware of the problem, when basically he simply did not realize his daughter felt that way, and he was able to make an effort to build and reinforce their relationship. There are many ways in dealing with teenage anger management in both girls, boys and children. Even the adults might learn something new.

Source:Buzzle

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